I want to be very clear about something that comes up from time to time: my spanking sessions are non-sexual. That means they do not involve sexual activity in any form, and they never will.
This isn’t because I have anything against sex. I don’t. But NaturallyGin is not a space where sex and spanking are mingled. For me, the kind of consensual spanking I offer stands entirely on its own, without being sexualized.
To be specific, my sessions do not include sexual intercourse, they do not involve masturbation for either party, and there is no touching of genitals or sexual contact of any kind.
I understand that some people may feel nervous about the possibility of becoming aroused during a session, but in my experience, those who worry about this the most are usually the ones who never have that response. It is rarely, if ever, an issue. And if you are coming into the space with respect, you have nothing to feel self-conscious about.
Over the years, many people have tried to convince me to allow certain things during a session because “someone else let them.” My answer to that is simple: if that other person gave you what you are looking for, then go back to them. Stop trying to pressure or manipulate me into changing my boundaries. It has never worked and it will never work.
My spanking sessions may involve physical intensity, emotional vulnerability, and consensual power dynamics, but they are not sexual. My boundaries are clear, and they are not up for negotiation.
