I ask that spankees arrive on time for their session. Not early. Not late. On time. Meaning the time we have agreed upon. This might seem like a small thing, but it matters. I really don’t like when people are late, but honestly, it bothers me even more when they are early.
When someone arrives too early, I’m simply not going to be ready for you. Why? Because I have a way I like to prepare for sessions, and an early arrival disrupts that. I understand that people can be nervous or excited, but showing up 15, 20, or 25 minutes early is not acceptable. Even 10 minutes isn’t acceptable. Anything more than two or three minutes is too early.
So if you do arrive early, feel free to go to a nearby café, have a coffee, or take a walk. But please do not message me asking if you can come early just because you happen to be nearby, the answer will be no.
When someone arrives late, they often come in flustered, and that’s not ideal either. Of course, sometimes things happen, and I understand that. So if you're going to be late, just let me know. But I can't promise I won’t spank you for it. And if you arrive too early, you’ll probably just end up standing in the corner until I’m ready for you.
Neither of these is ideal for me though, and I would prefer that spankees just be on time. Not early. Not late. On time.
Also, don’t brat by arriving late or early on purpose just to get a reaction out of me. I really don’t appreciate that kind of thing at all. I don’t rush my sessions, so the time we agreed upon should be respected.
