Your Decision, Not Mine
I will often receive messages from spankos who are thinking about booking a spanking session with me but aren’t sure.
They write at length about their fantasies, their guilt, their relationships, their hesitations, and so on. These are topics I’m always open to exploring during an in-person talk session or in a virtual setting, as long as it is understood that these are discussions and not meant to be persuasive.
When someone reaches out and they’re still at a crossroads, it’s often because they’re looking for reassurance. They want to know it’s all right to feel what they feel or that they’re not alone in wanting this. I do understand that for many, this is a side of themselves they’ve kept private for years, and they struggle with it. Just remember that my role is not to convince anyone to see me. My part is to listen and provide a safe space for those who are ready.
So the bottom line is that I will never try to convince a spankee to have a session with me (and many have wanted me to), because that would make the experience non-consensual and that goes against the basic principles of adult spanking play. The choice has to come 100 percent from the spankee.
The only thing I can say is that I know spankos are happier when they give themselves permission to be who they are. But that permission has to come from within.
P.S. Yes, it is all right to feel what you feel, as long as your desires are safe, sane, and consensual. And you are definitely not alone. This blog is a testament to that.
